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Six Things To Know Before Inviting an Autistic Child Over for a Playdate

February 7, 2015 by Shaila Abdullah

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  1. I am a person with a name, not just a condition. Act normal with me.
  2. Scary as it might be for you, if I am having a moment of anxiety, give me some space and a quiet place to work it out. I am usually able to deal with it much better when I don’t have too many distractions.
  3. Don’t be offended if I don’t hug you back. I don’t mind shaking hands, though.
  4. Don’t worry if you serve items I shouldn’t eat. Remember that I am smart enough to check labels and ask.
  5. When I come over to play, you can ask my parents to let you know what toys and games I like. I am a much better guest when I am around familiar objects.
  6. If you change plans at the last minute, see if you can give me a heads up. It always helps.

– Marco

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Excerpted from A Manual for Marco
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